What to Buy

I am adding to this as people ask but here are the sections that I have filled out so far.
Hard Drives
Camera Memory

Hard Drives

Small Portable

G-Technology ev RaW 2TB USB
WD My Passport 4TB USB (not for video shoots)

Large Portable

G-Technology 8TB USB
G-Technology 6TB USB
G-Technology 4TB USB

faster portable drive
G-Technology 8TB Thunderbolt

Fast Drives

Samsung T3 1TB USB
Samsung T3 2TB USB

Internal Drives

WD Black 6TB
WD Black 5TB

I put them in a HighPoint RocketStor 6328LS 8 bay drive tower. It is fast and quiet and holds 8 drives so that is great. It also comes in a 4 bay version for a little less.

Best for general purpose

WD Red 8TB
WD Red 6TB

Camera Memory

SD Cards
Sony SDXC 128GB
Sony SDXC 256GB

Sony M Series UHS-II SDXC 128GB
Super fast but you will need a card reader like
Lexar SR2 SD UHS-II Reader

WiFi Router

Big House, Smart, Better in every way, get one of these
Their advice is 1 Eero per 1000 square feet of house
Eero x1
Eero x2
Eero x3

Cheap, Solid, Simple
If the Eero is too expensive to get started then this Archer C7 is the best cheap normal router where it is just a box with a bunch of antennas with it.
TP-Link Archer C7 v2

But I am a pro!?! What do you you use???
Well I use a Unifi Security Gateway (USG for short) and have my house wired with ethernet cable that links the USG to a few Unifi UAP-AC-PRO wifi access points. Another option for the router is the Edgerouter ER-X model. It is a very powerful professional level router but at a bargain price. Can be intimidating to set up and manage. Unifi stuff is powerful, professional but has a great user interface.